TAKDIR

Last few days my friend had a minor accident and did gone thru the whole anchalata of police procedure whereby during the privy of the police investigator, she was told that the accident is as 'TAKDIR'...he said if it meant to be it is to be...ehmm it got me thinking..we were face with takdir most of the time , its just whether we notice and accept it or not...same thing today as I was talking with my friend a similar situation happen to me of which at first after reliasing it was quite difficult to accept but only later finally it kicks in...now the question is that whether what are we going to do after that...are we going to be angry to God for it or are we going to be matured on it....the difference of these two will determine our next course of action..if former we will alwiz be in anger mode as we have lost our faith in God whilst for the later case we will take it positively as we believe there must be a reason for it to happen...I guess we need to take a step back look at the bigger picture and then can we understand the reason...there are instances where it is quite difficult for me to accept but later I've learned that with a little faith we can face it positively...further this will keep our health in check as less worries and more happy in our life....

so everybody just ponder on this issue and see how have u approach on the matter....???