Monday, 8 December 2008

Hanging by the moment

Recently my father has passed on and thinking all the sacrifices made while he was sick is something that will not be forgotten for the rest of your life...the time lost on yourself reserving for him and doing it to the person you love makes it more worthwhile for you to live...all the time spent while taking care of him in the hospital makes the sacrifices more worthwhile. Its the simple little thing that you learn while taking care of him is the thing that you will remember for the rest of your life..the nonchalant conversation you had in that moment will remains in your mind forever...

so as continuation of my last post..I was telling about sacrifices of which is something that everybody have done whether they knowingly notice or not..for me if I need to do it and its predestined by God to face it ..I will do it until otherwise...but while doing it u'll be hanging by the moment in time...to judge whether its worth it depend on the result of which is way far in future..so if you were given a choice to proceed or not to proceed u will need all the scenarios in your head as to gauge whether the choices made are the best....some say that the purpose is the best guide added with lots of faith and love will ensure its sustainability..but for me apart from that the benefits depends also on the parties that are involved in the matter...if both are at the same bridge then the sacrifices made will definitely be worth it.... in my case my father undying love for his kids is the bset guide for me..

so 'abah' for you the sacrifices made is definitely worth it...

2 comments:

cocojune said...

know that yr father goes to a better place, whatever suffering he gone thro' in this earth is nothing.......so life still goes on and it is now our turn to sacrify for the next generation -- our kids.......

ladyDee said...

TQ ah leng......