TAKDIR

Last few days my friend had a minor accident and did gone thru the whole anchalata of police procedure whereby during the privy of the police investigator, she was told that the accident is as 'TAKDIR'...he said if it meant to be it is to be...ehmm it got me thinking..we were face with takdir most of the time , its just whether we notice and accept it or not...same thing today as I was talking with my friend a similar situation happen to me of which at first after reliasing it was quite difficult to accept but only later finally it kicks in...now the question is that whether what are we going to do after that...are we going to be angry to God for it or are we going to be matured on it....the difference of these two will determine our next course of action..if former we will alwiz be in anger mode as we have lost our faith in God whilst for the later case we will take it positively as we believe there must be a reason for it to happen...I guess we need to take a step back look at the bigger picture and then can we understand the reason...there are instances where it is quite difficult for me to accept but later I've learned that with a little faith we can face it positively...further this will keep our health in check as less worries and more happy in our life....

so everybody just ponder on this issue and see how have u approach on the matter....???

Pets

If I were to have pets I will definitely choose cats as my pets. ..not that I do not like dogs or rabbits for that matter but for me cats have the character of their own that I adore...for example:

1. Cleaning - loves grooming themselves...this they can do it 24/7, after eating/sleeping/relaxing/palying..name it

2. Sleeping - they can sleep practically everywhere...by the dustbin, on the roof, by the drain...

3. Playing - once they are in the playing mode...just be prepared for broken items...

4. Cuddling- i love this part...the can just cuddle you when they feel like it as if you are their god...

5. Fighting- can be done anywhere and anytime, even in the middle of the road..more challeging I guess..

6. Mating - this one thumbs up for the ladies..can make the guys be peace with each other for the time being...uhuh ladies power..yeahhh

7. Warning/growling - they will continously do it if they feel like something is wrong..like another cat is dying/ a male cat is coming...

talking about my cats..i miss my cats so much...here i will give u my favourite two cats..irene and mama 'comel' ...

Hanging by the moment

Recently my father has passed on and thinking all the sacrifices made while he was sick is something that will not be forgotten for the rest of your life...the time lost on yourself reserving for him and doing it to the person you love makes it more worthwhile for you to live...all the time spent while taking care of him in the hospital makes the sacrifices more worthwhile. Its the simple little thing that you learn while taking care of him is the thing that you will remember for the rest of your life..the nonchalant conversation you had in that moment will remains in your mind forever...

so as continuation of my last post..I was telling about sacrifices of which is something that everybody have done whether they knowingly notice or not..for me if I need to do it and its predestined by God to face it ..I will do it until otherwise...but while doing it u'll be hanging by the moment in time...to judge whether its worth it depend on the result of which is way far in future..so if you were given a choice to proceed or not to proceed u will need all the scenarios in your head as to gauge whether the choices made are the best....some say that the purpose is the best guide added with lots of faith and love will ensure its sustainability..but for me apart from that the benefits depends also on the parties that are involved in the matter...if both are at the same bridge then the sacrifices made will definitely be worth it.... in my case my father undying love for his kids is the bset guide for me..

so 'abah' for you the sacrifices made is definitely worth it...

Hari Raya Haj

Hmm time to get back....days seem so long today...eager awaiting for the weekend to 'balik kampung' as to celebrate Raya Haj...sadly this is the first raya without my father around...guess life has to go as usual..whether we like or not....

Hari Raya Haj ...the sacrifice....deep meaning..so many sacrifice in life that u need to do that u wonder whether its worth it...some say time will tell but being in the life of fast lane...it just seems not enough......go figure...

Updating of my blog!!

yesterday due to over excitement of creating my blog had some friends to view the blog...ehhmm it is still bare need more construction.....so as a start i have added my photo (so those who view can know who the owner is) and also inserted the love my life pic at the bottom...Irene is the name...miss her so much...

Thinking of inserting all my previous journey pics but I just couldn't start when as there is too much to take from.....

So any suggestion frens???? Hong Kong..Manila...Vietnam...Mekkah....

Creation of my own blog

who would have guess that i finally create my own blog....hhhmm its seems i will be busy setting up my blog for this few days ..need to survey other bloggers just to see anything interesting to put in my blog...